How to identify an energetic mismatch
Your body doesn't lie. But it always shows us our personal experience and a reflection of ourselves. Don't like someone?
Someone entirely harmless who has done nothing wrong may make you feel cautious. They may be the most likable person. But if the first feeling is discomfort, or rejection, listen to that. Your body is wise. It can steer you to avoid friction later. But sometimes that feeling of discomfort is revealing something about you more than the other person.
Your feelings and bodily signals about someone are never objective. They're merely a reflection of what this person's energy is in relation to you.
The mistake people make is that if they don't like someone or feel off about someone, they may make others look bad or talk bad about them just because they were not an energetic match. Just because you personally don't sit with someone, doesn't justify you spreading that to others to think the same.
Your simply experiencing an energetic mismatch, it's not an objective truth.
We are all projections of one another. What you see in someone is merely a reflection of you.
Some parts we recognize because they're oddly familiar: a person's traits can be exactly what we practice ourselves, but we don't like that part about ourselves.
Sometimes these things represent our past and parts we want to grow out of: perhaps a trait or a habit that you feel you're ready to let go of.
Sometimes they represent what we want to grow into. You don't like someone's arrogance? They're too self-confident, too loud? Perhaps it's because you would want to be that brave and visible, too.
You must realize that what ever you put out there will come back to you tenfold. The bad words about someone will bounce back to you.
Wishing ill for someone will become your illness. So does wishing good for someone. You simply receive what you put out there.
Respect your body's wisdom. Take distance. Reflect. Let go. Take a breather. But don't just reject and forget.
When in discomfort, stop for a deeper reflection. Stop to ask why. Why do such bodily emotions arise? What do they tell about you? What in you is still undiscovered, suffocated, or repressed that wants to come to the surface?
Next time you identify a dislike, a discomfort, or a feeling of rejection: ask yourself what made you recognize the darkness in another. Which part of your body does it resonate in? What are you rejecting, and why? Listen to it and honor it.
Our feelings are always valid, but never objective. They're layers and projections of us.
